Showing posts with label frenemies. Show all posts
Showing posts with label frenemies. Show all posts

Sunday, December 9, 2012

Again...friends suck

So once again...my nasty friend decided to rear her ugly head. Out of nowhere, she texted me the other day asking if I could export her to the UK. She's obsessed with London, so it didn't really seem too wild of a thing for her to say. I told her I would if I could, but I only work with imports...seeing as...you know...to do my job, I really only can work with imports, else I'd have to be in another country, and then technically I'd still be doing imports. Then she told me I should switch jobs so I should work with exports. Still, not terrible. Pissing me off a little because I don't even work for the company that does the exports, but, okay. I'm still being sociable.

Then she goes on to say I need to get a wedding website up 'cause she wants to know all the details of it. I've been trying to avoid talking about my wedding with her because...she believes she's the maid of honor and in actuality she's not even invited. It doesn't seem polite to discuss it with her because of that. I said it's been busy with work and hard to put stuff together because my fiance and I live in two different states. Thanks military! But it's still working out fine, we have more than enough time after he finishes his enlistment, as well as the few times he'll be on leave. I'm just a paranoid person. Anyway, then she goes on to give me a lecture that since I *knew* he was going to be away, I was stupid for getting engaged and setting a date for when I did. 

How am I supposed to deal with people like this? It doesn't make any sort of sense. I've never been rude to her, treated her like family. I've stopped talking to her in the past few years because of the way she's begun treating my fiance as well, and I just can't take it anymore. Somehow she doesn't realize that I'm ignoring her. What do I do?

Sunday, August 5, 2012

Friends Suck

I'm completely blown away by the audacity of some people.  A person I used to be really good friends with in junior high and high school has once again proven to me what a self centered, rude bitch she really is. I generally can't stand her, but put up with her because we've known each other so long. But recently she's been making racist comments about my fiancĂ© (he's hispanic), as well as exceptionally rude comments towards me. I'm leaving in a few days, and today for the first time since June (although I haven't seen her since March) she asked me to go to lunch. I agreed, although I'm busy with last minute things for my move and she said we could go whenever I was free. 

Well, I called and gave her a time in an attempt to avoid the crowd that follows church letting out on Sundays, and her response was "I'm not hungry right now, sorry." And she hung up.

Well, fuck you too, bitch.